Make up. No matter how much you have to humble yourself. No matter how hard it is to say I'm sorry. No matter what it takes to put your pride to the side, make up. Don't just make up for one day. Make up over several days. Learn to appreciate each other again. Having fun making up. There's a certain kind of magic ti making up. It's bring the honeymoon stage back. Make up before you even mess up. Make up for no reason.  Make up because you are worth it and you love each other enough to hold it together. At all costs, don't let a disagree make you break up, make up immediately.

Last but not least, no outside relationships. If you can't commit to one person and to your family then don't get married. Many people don't like bottom line truths like that but that's the only option for those that aren't mature enough to commit. Relationships are hard work. Relationships require responsible adults to maintain them. Extramarital relationships are only distractions. They don't solve the real problem and they don't provide a real solution. It actually make the problems worse over time because if you're not paying attention to your marriage that you are not paying attention to your issues with your spouse. Eventually, you'll be left sitting there looking at each other so you might as well make up and not break up.

We need more lasting relationships in the world. Love is what what brings peace and harmony to our worlds and the entire world at large. It sounds so cliche' but it's actually the truth. Marriage is sacred. Marriage is beautiful. Marriage is freedom. It allows you to freely explore and multiply at your own pace. It's not a lonely place. All sex and no love is lonely. If you have love, everything else is just an added extra. Marriage shouldn't be a way to become a citizen of another country. Marriage should be the reason that you decide to see the world. We have it backwards about marriage. We think that once we get married, we should buy a house and sit there and look at each other for the rest of our lives. We want to have all of our "fun" first and then live boring lives later. Marriage should be the time that all of the fun begins. A marriage can be stable without being boring. Split the bill and see the world together. Go on a honeymoon every year. Be big kids together. Get dirty together and then get clean together. Workout together. Date each other and never stop. Most of all, prayer together and thank God for your love everyday. That's what will help you stay together. When you pray for someone, that shows that you appreciate that person.The most loving thing that a spouse can do is ask the Creator himself to bless and protect the very person that you have become one with. And needless to say, when you are praying for your spouse, you won't have time to think of anyone else. That's what marriage is all about. The keys to marriage = Don't break up. Do make up. No outside relationships.